The Art of Blind Dating – Tips and Tricks For Guys

June 30, 2015 by  
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by Eva Rinaldi Celebrity and Live Music Photographer

The Art of Blind Dating – Tips and Tricks For Guys

It’s understandable that most people are apprehensive about going on blind dates. Most people are apprehensive about anything unknown. A blind date requires complete faith and a relinquishing of one’s fate to, well, Fate, and more often than not people fear ending up disappointed by their blind dates because they somehow don’t live up to their expectations.

But if you were to go on a blind date, that is the one thing you shouldn’t have in mind: Expectations. If you’re on a blind date of your own free will, you shouldn’t have some lofty expectation, hoping for the best and fearing the worst. This article will dispense some useful tips and tricks for guys keen on going on blind dates, but not knowing what to expect or do while on one.

The first thing you need to keep in mind is this: It’s a blind date. In most circumstances, your blind date has no idea what to expect from you because she hasn’t met you at all, so first impressions count. Think of it this way: Would you be attracted to a filthy, terribly attired woman who doesn’t seem to know how to make a good first impression? Unless you have some strange kink for women who don’t bother taking good care of themselves, then the answer would most likely be “no.”

The point to be made here is, looks are important. It isn’t a superficial stereotype, but it’s true. In the dating scene, looks make first impressions. A woman could have the most annoying behavioral trait but if she looks smoking hot in a dress with her hair down, looking like a gorgeous pin-up of a supermodel right off the pages of FHM, you’ll probably put up with her quirks just to spend the night with her.

If you have that kind of mentality, why shouldn’t your date have the same? Attraction often involves a visual component first and foremost. So be sure to appear at least decently attractive on your first blind date, so you won’t be a complete turn off for her.

However, it’s almost rare that a woman would be attracted to just a guy’s looks. Have you seen normal, average Joes who aren’t exactly what you would consider handsome or attractive in the very least, but they have by their sides smoking hot girlfriends? It’s the strangest combination for sure, but there is a perfectly reasonable explanation for it.

At the most basic level women like guys who are assertive, confident, and able to take control of situations, themselves, and others when needed, because all those traits represent safety for the woman. So on that first blind date, be sure to come across as a guy who’s confident, mature, and in-charge.

Another trait women find attractive is personality. You could be the worst-looking guy she’s ever met, but if you’ve got a personality that shows you’ve got a heart of gold, she’ll be putty in your hands. No one can change their natural appearance without drastic cosmetic surgical procedures, in fact it’s damn well impossible, but what is possible, even though it may take quite a bit of effort, is to “tweak” your personality to your date’s liking.

If you have some inkling of what she likes, then be sure to conduct the necessary research beforehand so you’ll come prepared with discussion topics that might appeal to her, perhaps something that has to do with current pop culture, or really anything that she might show an interest in.

However, be sure to steer clear from the old clichés like asking her what she does for a living, or asking about her family, or her hobbies. And never, ever, ask for her age. Be different, be unique, stand out from other guys so you’re ingrained into her mind as a guy who’s different and worth getting to know a little better.

Veronica Lois is a graduate in sociology, specializing in human behavior and relationships. She has helped many with relationships issues as a therapist, and now seeks to provide online dating tips & advice on her blog at http://www.free-dating-advice.com

Dating Advice For Workaholics

June 29, 2015 by  
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by Thompson Rivers

Dating Advice For Workaholics

Career driven people often neglect to arrange their priorities correctly, and it’s little wonder why there are more single 20 and 30 something’s in this day and age than ever before. Let’s determine some ways for workaholics to keep their career, as well as finding time to stop and smell the roses.

1/ Are You A Workaholic? You may not recognize you have a problem, but if you stop and think about whether you are neglecting quality time with your friends and family in favor of work, then you should consider re-assessing your life choices. Have you just settled into a pattern of working endless hours? Have you given up on social opportunities due to past failures with relationships and have decided to throw yourself into work? Any of these scenarios are okay, for a while, however making your job the centre of your universe is an unhealthy choice.

2/ It’s About Priorities. It’s the oldest excuse in the book “I’ve been too busy to call you”. The thing is, if your priorities were in the correct order these kind of lame excuses would not be necessary, and who do you think you’re kidding? do you really think anyone actually considers this a believable reason to never hear from you? It’s really more of an insult to learn that your good mate can’t even put aside two minutes once every two weeks for a quick phone call to say “hello”.

3/ Look Where Other Busy Singles Hang Out? With an increasingly busy workload for many of us, the Internet is where men and women are shopping for companionship. Once you learn how to navigate around online dating sites, it can literally take just minutes to line up a couple of dates. Dating online is a sensible option for time poor singles. Online dating sites require members to complete a detailed self-analysis during the registration process. Use this opportunity to express what it is you hope to get out of life, but don’t make the mistake of making your online dating profile the focus of your career.

4/ Learn To Switch Off. Regardless of if your job is demanding, it’s imperative you learn to balance home and work commitments. Switching off from the daily grind during your date is something you need to get right if you plan on having a second date with the same person. Take heed; acknowledge things they talk about and react to them. Use the time you are with them and genuinely get to know him or her, rather than imagining what chores you need to attend to back at the office.

5) Start Growing Your Life Outside Of Work. If the majority of your acquaintances are where you work, you should look at changing this statistic, which applies tenfold if you rely entirely on dating people from work. Remember your old hobbies that once gave you inner satisfaction? Pick up your musical instrument you have not touched in years, start hitting the gym like you used to, go visit your Grandma – get out of the cycle of talking, breathing and living work because that isn’t ‘living’!!

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Dating Advice For Guys

June 28, 2015 by  
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Dating Advice For Guys

 

The best way to avoid one of men’s biggest fears when it comes to dating is falling into the friend zone. The new adage of ‘she not that into you’ is the modern cliché that many guys dread of hearing from women. If you are looking for the perfect date with the potential for something more, this is one situation that you will want to avoid. Women who are dating are looking for the date that can be all the things that a romantic lover would do to make them feel special and ignite that chemistry. If you fail in doing that then you automatically fall into the friend zone.

The best way to avoid the friend zone is to not go there at all. If you do not feel the chemistry, chances are she is not feeling it either. Yet, chemistry between you and woman is not totally organic. You can induce chemistry with the right techniques that entice a woman to romantic feelings for you. Lots of guys get girls by using certain body language, certain tone of voice and in particular the right words. There are ideal dating guides to tell you how to do this but not all guides will get you the girl you want to date and stay out of the friend zone.

Guys, you can stay out of the friend zone by making your intentions clear. The subtle approach is to stay away from doing friend things. You have friends already to those type of things. You want a date. Going shopping with her and her girlfriends, meeting up for short coffee break at work, or just hanging out is all a girl needs to get you to the friend zone. The whole point of meeting up is to go on a date, so try to make it clear by inviting her out for meal or a drink and offer to pick her up instead of meeting her there. The more bold approach are for the less timid. No beating around the bush, just ask her out and actually use the word ‘date’. Making your intentions clear let the women know that you are not looking for a friend but a bonefide romantic adventure.

Make a date a date by opening doors for her, being in close proximity to her, offer to hold her hand when crossing the busy street or just walking. Being bold does not mean being intimidating or a bully, it just means that you and she are clear as why you are together and not the friend zone.

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Forever Yours – The Secret Password To His Heart

June 26, 2015 by  
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Forever Yours – The Secret Password To His Heart

What if I told you that you can whisper a few “magic words” in your man’s ear… and make him fall head-over-heels in love?

You’d probably be skeptical. I certainly was.

Then I saw a new video by my friend Carlos Cavallo.

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Over the last 10 years, Carlos has helped hundreds of women take control of their relationships…get their men to open up… and finally get the love and respect they deserve.

And now it’s your turn.

In this special video, Carlos pulls back the curtain and reveals his best-kept secrets to getting any man to fall in love fast—without playing games.

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  • How to stop him from pulling away, shutting down, and putting up walls. Do this right and you’ll get him chasing you—and begging to be your boyfriend (or even your husband)
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Blind Date Tips – How to Nail That First Date

June 26, 2015 by  
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by Eva Rinaldi Celebrity and Live Music Photographer

Blind Date Tips – How to Nail That First Date

Chances are, you’re already sweating like hell right now thinking about your big date tonight. It’s been a while since your last encounter with someone and you’re itching to make the best impression no matter what. Before you launch into a panic, try to inhale and exhale and remember that it’s not the end of the world — most people go out on blind dates everyday and it pays to act cool and casual about it. No need to hang on it like a life jacket but that doesn’t mean you appear your worst as well. It’s all about the balance. Be open to a possible romance in a blind date but don’t expect too much as well. By now, here are a few blind date tips you might want to try tonight.

Don’t get too nervous.The more you do, the more likely you’ll screw up. Or the more you expect for the worst, the greater chance it’ll happen. You better get scared with these possibilities. So loosen up, relax and try envisioning a much better scenario in your head — it will affect in your mood and you’ll look much more confident.
Look your best. Put your best foot forward — meaning you better put a little effort into looking good tonight. Look, smell and feel good — it will definitely show. And your date wouldn’t miss it. It will add up to you confident aura and you’re now near into getting that good impression you’re aiming for.
Be on time.Don’t be late — no matter what. It’s a good way to ruin the night — and it hasn’t even started yet. Tardiness is a big no-no on a first or blind date. Women can be excused to be a few minutes late but you however; it’s a great way to let her realize you value her time — another point for the good impression.
Stay comfortable. Don’t give in to that growing feeling of anxiety and nervousness inside you during the course of your meal. Sure, she’s gorgeous and you’re dying to make her attracted to you — this is the most vital part where you stay as calm and relaxed as you can. Engage her in a conversation.
Ask her out again. When things get a little comfortable and you know she likes you (even just a bit) tell her you had a great time and would like to know what she’ll be doing next weekend. There’s a possibility she may reject you for a second date but that doesn’t mean she’s not interested — she may be testing how far you can go.

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Online Dating Advice

June 25, 2015 by  
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by Mário Tomé

Online Dating Advice

Online dating has brought the world together with the click of a mouse. If you have made the decision to give online dating a try there is some advice you might take into consideration. Then go and have fun.

First take it slow. You don’t have to get involved in the relationship immediately. Take the time to get to know the person you are communicating with. You will want to watch for any signs of deception with the person you are involved with. And make sure that you share the same interests and intentions. If something doesn’t feel right then just simply move on from this person.

Don’t give out your personal information right away. It is best never to put your real email address or your real name in your dating profile. No one should pressure you to give out this information right away. If someone is doing that then that is a sign that they may be trying to harm you in some way. No one should ask to meet you in person right away either. Stay away from those that try to pressure you into doing something you don’t feel comfortable with.

Ask to see a picture. You will want to know who you are dealing with. It really shouldn’t matter what the person looks like as long as they are a good person. But for many people physical appearance does matter. It can be more beneficial if they send you more than one picture. This way you can see them in a variety of settings.

Be careful when you are pursuing an online dating relationship. Your prospective partner should gain your trust with a sincere and honest effort. No one should be able to get your information overnight and no one should be able to get your trust overnight. Be careful with who you are dealing with.

Only agree to a meeting when you feel comfortable. Never agree to meet up with someone that you are unsure of or have mixed feelings about. You may have a very good reason for your misgivings. Trust your intuition and proceed slowly. If you do agree to meet, make sure it is in a public place. This is for your safety. You would be surprised that a public place might discourage someone with less than honest intentions. And let your friends and family know what you are doing. Again, safety is important when you are meeting a stranger.

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Safe Online Dating Tips

June 23, 2015 by  
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by Alesa Dam

Safe Online Dating Tips

If you are highly interested to start online dating, you have to be careful. This kind of dating can possibly lead you to a trouble. Be thoughtful. Not all the people you meet on online site are good. You have to carefully investigate which man you can meet to date.

If you are not sure choosing the right one, you can read on the following and find out how to make a date safely.

You have to be aware. Going out with someone you can hardly know personally can expose you a hazard such an abuse. If you meet the one you chat with for the first time, you may feel uneasiness, trill and excitement. It is normal, but you have to be aware of anything which can possibly lead to a hazard.

When you start to get on date, you have to make sure that he does not pick you up. Don’t expose your address to someone you don’t know personally. You can arrange your meeting in somewhere and make an appointment to meet there.

To keep your meeting safe, you have to make sure to choose the public place to meet so that there are some other people instead of both of you. It is to minimize a risk if the one you meet is irresponsible. As an alternative, you can also think about making double to group date.

Pay your own bill. It is beneficial to avoid the need of exchange in favor. Although commonly it is naturally a man’s task, yet some of them often expect the exchange.

Avoid the alcoholic beverages. Alcohol is one of the main treat to the judgment of the individual at the first meeting. It affects your own judgment and also lessens the inhibitions. Or, if you are in a place which needs you to drink, don’t get drunk so that you can still control everything you do. Therefore, it will be much better to avoid the alcohol for the first time date.

Telling somebody else where you are going is a good idea. Tell them the place and the person you are going with. It is to prevent from unwanted thing. Therefore, you have to be fully aware of your first date. If you feel something amiss, it will be better for you to leave immediately. In addition, if you enjoy and feel the chemistry, you have to stay alert while you are together. Since you have just known him, all are possible to happen.

Instead of looking for a man to date with, you can also make friends with some other people from all over the world through the internet. You can communicate with them all through web conference calls. On the other hand, if you want to communicate with them through phone, you can consider flat rate conference callings. It will be more efficient.

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June 22, 2015 by  
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DATING ADVICE FOR WOMEN: Dating With your Purse? Shhh Ladies (Women’t Guide to Dating and Being Irresistible: Make him beg you and Keep you and keep his … Tips, Dating Advice, How to attract Men)

June 22, 2015 by  
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Dating Advice For Guys

June 21, 2015 by  
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by marsmet525

Dating Advice For Guys
Whether you’re single, or dating, there have probably been a few times that you’ve stuck your size 12 foot in your mouth or have done something to make her unhappy. Well with the advice for guys we’ve put together, you can make sure that you never spend another night sleeping on the couch. If that does happen, these tips will help you limit the nights spent on the couch.
The first piece of advice for guys is really important and I am talking about dates. Dates are…important. Women love to celebrate special dates such as birthdays, anniversaries, or any excuse to extract attention. Not to sound redundant, but forgetting a birthday or anniversary is a huge blunder to which every male on the planet has succumbed. Unfortunately, the fact that your peers also forget birthdays should provide you with little comfort. In this advanced day and age with all the technology out there, all you have to do is program a reminder so you can run to the store at the last minute and get a gift. If you find yourself stuck with absolutely nothing to give, make her a card, pick up some flowers, give her something of yours, or find something that makes her feel special.
My second piece of advice for guys is, learn to be sweet. Being sweet doesn’t make you whipped; it makes you a guy who will be sure to please his girlfriend, wife, or friend! You know in the middle of the day when a thought pops into your head about your girlfriend Well when that happens, call or text her and tell her you were thinking about her and thought you’d call. It’s simple and will take less than 2 minutes of your time. If you listen to nothing else, this piece of advice for guys will always work!
This next bit of advice for guys should be a no-brainer, but if it is not here you go; always be open and honest about your female friends. No matter how hot she is, tell your girl about this friend and let them meet early on. Trust me; you will be in a lot more trouble if you don’t tell your girlfriend about this friendship and even more trouble if you forget to tell her that your buddy looks like Gisele Bundchen. The fact that it never crossed your mind will not serve as a legitimate excuse.
This last bit of advice for guys is crucial. If your girlfriend, wife, mother, sister, or really any woman in general asks you that inevitable question, how do I look or do I look fat in this, before you answer take the time to look at your woman with kind eyes and answer quickly. And no matter what your initial thought, the answer should always beautiful. Better adjectives include; breathtaking, stunning, and gorgeous. The point isn’t really to lie, but any hesitation or unnecessary comments will just upset her or send her back to the closet.

 

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